Loathe by definition means feel intense dislike or disgust for.
That is what I have. A few years ago I decided to be positive in my life and it has helped me. But there are just some things I will loathe or people I loathe forever.
For example my mom wants me to go swimming with the grand kids this weekend. When has that ever been fun? Sure I understand they may be fun for some people but for me I hate it. Maybe if I had a kid then it would be fun but I loathe swimming with the grand kids. It isn’t fun for me. First of all that means I have to act like an adult. Why would I want to do that? Don’t get me wrong I like swimming but I want to swim on my own terms I do not want to worry about little kids. Also little kids that I don’t know very well. We are related but I only see them sometimes and holidays.
Person. I loathe this woman Jeff works with her name is Amanda. I have never liked her. You know some people you meet in your life and there is just something about them that you hate. I have had that feeling about her since I met her and when Jeff talks about her. First she does sometimes now but when Jeff started she flirted with him a lot! I dislike that but I didn’t loathe her. Also Jeff is dumb when it comes to flirting. He doesn’t know when a woman does that to him. I’d be like she flirting with you. He be like oh really? Funny.
Anyway one time a couple of years ago she came over to do a demo for a vacuum cleaner. That is when I met her. Just something about her that made me not like her. I think it was her fake happiness. Ever see anyone with fake happiness? Fake smile and the giggling. Ugh! I so hate the giggling so fake. At this time she kept saying “Good thing I like dogs or I grew up with dogs.” Meaning your dog Koko is very scary. Funny. I know I shouldn’t but I laugh when people think Koko is scary. Gentle giant alert. Koko loves people and gives them more kisses then me. Jealous.
Jeff tells me she does the most stupidest things to get attention of guys. Really? DUH! You can tell what kind of person she is. Maybe because I am a woman and I can spot a fake or maybe just because I can be observant. Or maybe it’s both. Not sure on that. However the tribe decided now to do security cameras everywhere. She was concerned you could see her workout. Yeah I could see that. But when she is done working out she walks around the office in her tight skimpy work out clothes. So let’s get this straight you don’t want people to see you workout but you keep your sweaty workout clothes on when you are done. Hmmm attention whore much?
Finally Jeff said the other night he dislikes Amanda. She doesn’t work hard as the rest of us. Really? FINALLY! All the stories I hear about her from the others as well just puts nails in her coffin.
I don’t loathe this person but I loathe the situation. Sheyerna my friend from Facebook. I hate that she never got back to me about hanging out with her. I dislike that she blew me off. I see her hanging out with others that she hasn’t seen just as long as me. Sometimes I think of asking why but decide not too. I am actually hurt that she did that. She was at my wedding she took pictures. I really liked her and thought she was interesting. I loathe that she did that to me. So maybe I will eventually say something. I must brew about it more though.