Life

I thought my relationship with my mom was going smoothly lately but this weekend it changed….again. Ugh! Yesterday was Memorial Day and I told mom we may or may not come to their house. We decided not to go to their house and stay home. I got the third degree from her and she even was trying to tell me that dad was guilt tripping me.  Ridiculous!

I don’t understand why we have to go to everything. It’s not like anyone talks to us or cares what we have to say.  All mom does is care what the grandkids are doing. I have tried over the years to talk to her and all she is says “When the grandkids aren’t around, I’ll listen. Okay?” or “Not when so many people are around.” So….why should we go? Just to sit around and do nothing? Dumb.

Also when my mom called we had just gotten done ripping off the siding of our house and it was hard! There was these nuts that were stripped on to the house. I had to use my whole body and strength to get the board off. I was so tried and exhausted so I wasn’t in the mood to argue with my mom. I plainly told her we are not coming and all she does is hangout with the grandkids. She said my siblings are all going to be there. I told her they if they want to see me they know where we live. Ha! I was in no mood to be sympathetic to her. Also Jeff said he has never heard me talk to her like that. I told him when your exhausted things happen. Ha!

I watch people on TV and see how close some families are. They don’t know what my mom is like. Sometimes people say family is important. But does anyone have to put up with guilt trip after another. Then go to family functions to be ignored?! That is ridiculous! I bend over backwards for my mom but my siblings don’t. It’s because I don’t have kids. I get treated so differently because of that reason. It’s unfair.

Take Corey for example his family rarely comes to their house unless it’s to drop of their kid. Sure mom complains about it but doesn’t guilt trip him like me. She definitely sees me more than him. SO why do I have to be guilt tripped into seeing them. And it’s not like we don’t go over there or go to family functions ever. We go all the time. So what? We don’t go this one time and it isn’t even this one time. We didn’t go over there last Memorial Day. We didn’t get hassled like we did this year.

I am just mad. It’s dumb how she has to guilt trip me to do things with her. Since we go see them a lot. I would saw we see them more that they are only 45 minutes away than hour since they moved. And that is another thing we helped them move. We do all kinds things for them and they get angry at me because we didn’t go on Monday. On top of that I  will be spending all Saturday with my mom. How many of her another kids are going to spend all day with her? I do it because I want to not because have to lay down guilt.

I vented now I feel better.

I finally made some slipper socks. They were hard and I decided I don’t like making them. The heel part is the hardest.

 

 

 

 

Koko wouldn’t move so he got in my sock picture.

 

60th Bday

On Saturday we went to celebrate my Aunt Joanne’s birthday she turned 60. I was a little surprised that we were invited to her party and I thought there were going to be a whole lot of people.

This is the aunt who never has enough food on Thanksgiving but for some reason had so much food for her birthday! It’s ironic because there was so much food and not that many people were eating yet at Thanksgiving we always complain there isn’t enough food. Ha!

She rented out a hall for her birthday and I was surprised that there wasn’t that many people there. I thought for sure there would be a ton of people that I didn’t know. There were people I didn’t know but not as many as I thought.

When we got there and when we left she was very happy for us to be there. I thought that was strange. Is she getting more sentimental as she gets older?

Now I can’t prove it but I always thought that my aunt thought I was either really lazy or a bit stupid. Really! I only think that because I get this look when she asks Jeff if I have a job yet. And she talks in this tone to me somethings like I wouldn’t understand what she is saying. I don’t know why she does that. Like when she invited us to her birthday party it was Easter at my parent’s house. Her tone on letting her know through my parents it was like do you understand? Like yes I got it, I am not dumb.

Well anyway we showed up and stayed for a couple of hours. And she liked our gift we got her a Kwip trip gift card. She even gave me a kiss when we left?! What is going on? Strange.

 

Windows

We decided this year we are going to replace all of the windows in the house. We have seven windows and they are all bad. Last year we thought about it and had Window World come out. Now this was last year and I can’t really remember the salesman or their windows but I do remember not being impressed with them. 

Next Feldco came out. Jeff wouldn’t admit that I found them and I think that is funny. Lately I have been tapping Judge Judy. I love Judge Judy she is sassy. Anyways one of the commercials was Feldco. They came out and I was impressed with the salesman he was very nice and personable. He didn’t make us feel uncomfortable at all. I liked their windows and the hardware on them. Also something I didn’t think about they brought up was when a window is installed it’s usually wood or white on the outside. The salesman said that these days people pick color to accent the house. We never heard that before. He suggested green like our roof and we totally loved that idea. The price wasn’t too bad but still wanted to get other quotes.

 

 

Tundraland Windows.

I say this because they are a scam for sure.

First I want to share a funny story. Jeff and I were chatting about windows and I said “Isn’t funny that the sales people aren’t young.”

The next day the salesman was a young guy. Ha!      Now not so funny:

Think of the ways to scam you out of your money for windows and all you have to think about is Tundraland Windows.

First of all the guy shows up in a very expensive vehicle. I think that is fine if you are doing well and you want to show off a bit. However you are going to people’s homes to sell them something maybe drive a normal car. It shows you can relate a little. Next the salesman proceeded to tell us he was a military vet who fought in Afghanistan and Iraq. After that he boasts about Tundraland and his boss and what they do for military vets and all kinds of charity. In my opinion is great but that has nothing to do with windows.

Also if you have to boast about the charities that is just stroking your own ego. Someone who boasts about that, loses some of my respect for them. How about just donate and get a good feeling doing it but not tell anyone. Or tell someone so they have the information to donate as well but don’t boast about it and make it part of your sales tactic.

Next he boast about all the awards that they have received. Again do I care about this, no. It’s not like I am going to look up all of their dumb awards or have any care about them. It was like twenty minutes about their stupid awards they received.

He had the stare into your soul look. Do you know what I mean? I hate that and makes me so uncomfortable. Some people who talk to you they stare into your eyes for long periods of time and it feels like they are staring into your soul. Creepy! I dislike when people do that but I can tolerate it.

Finally after an hour of bullshit he finally got to the windows.

Blog as you know I am shy. We have chatted about that. He made me read in front of him and Jeff about argon gas. I can in front of Jeff but in front of him too. And I know he knew I was shy because the whole time he kept trying to get me into the conversation and me made me read that. Right there he lost me. I got nervous and my ears got hot. I did it but later I thought why didn’t I refuse? Sometimes I don’t think about that stuff in the moment.

After that he showed us his windows and boasts about them and the hardware. Then he took out a heat lamp and showed us the differences between low-E coating to block the heat from the sun. That took too long in my opinion to show us that.

So after all the testing the windows and telling us about the windows. He asked us what we think they are worth. Jeff and I aimed high and still it wasn’t high enough. It was outrageous what they wanted for seven windows! This is about how much they wanted for seven windows eleven thousands dollars. I almost passed out! Eleven thousands dollars! Holy shit!

Then he did sleazy sales tactic. “Oh let me call my boss to see if we still have the deal going on.” He gets on his phone and you can hear the guy on the other line “Oh yeah go ahead and give them that deal.” Come on! I wasn’t born yesterday. They knocked off two thousands dollars. So are the windows worth eleven thousand or nine thousand. Oh here another move “Well the time I pull out of your driveway this deal ends. I can….knock off another thousand dollars but this will end when I drive away.” So now the windows are worth seven thousand dollars.

See this, what bunch of shit.

We told him at the end of that, that we would not make a decision yet. Then he pulled out all these licenses “Oh I am a license contractor and I do this or that. This company is the best I have ever worked for.” Blah blah blah is all I heard. At this point I wanted him to leave. There was no way I would go with Tundraland. They aren’t trust worthy AND there is no way for the consumer to know what windows are really worth. Someone who has to boast about how good they are and uses these tactics to make their customers is sleazy and not worth it.

Just beware of Tundraland and the tactics they use to get you to buy. It’s best to shop around and in this day in age we have the internet. The reviews for Tundraland are good and yeah he added that like a million times. What I do is trust my instinct about someone and their company. Too bad Tundraland thinks this the right way to show their windows.

One more thing he never left his card and the first price of what he quoted us. Also we got no booklet or anything to think about their product. Basically if you don’t make a contract with them right there and then you get nothing to look at. So once he left all I thought about what a shit salesman that guy was and good thing he didn’t leave anything I would have recycled it anyways. Maybe that is why they don’t leave anything.

Next!

Tuesday we had Wisconsin Window Pros come out. I am impressed! No cheesy tactics just the facts. He got right to selling the windows. No awards or charities. He did talk about how well people like their product they have to do that. The price was like this OMG! How about less than five thousand for seven windows. The salesman was straight forward and only took an hour to talk about his windows and he can also do the green trim on the outside. He even left some information and emailed us the next day on the exact price.

Even though I liked Feldco, I think we are going to go with Wisconsin Window Pros. I will let you know who we choose.

 

 

Life

Mother’s Day was okay. Kim and Corey’s house is very small and their backyard is the same. It was nice that it was hot out and we could sit outside but it was crowded. I guess it’s perfect for them since they are tiny people. However you know you have a small house have it where everyone can fit like mom’s house. Also what is up with Kim wanting to have Mother’s Day at her house? She never spends this holiday with us.

It was nice she provided the main meal but she was strange about that. She got hotdogs and hamburgers but she was like ‘don’t cook them all’.  Jeff and I were like that is strange. Why not? You can eat them later I knew that what Jeff was thinking because I was thinking the same. Also when we have get together we leave all the food out so everyone can munch if they want, she put everything away after we were done eating. Oh and she made Jeff a drink but wouldn’t make me a drink. Not sure what is up with that.

Chrissy got mom some pink flowers that was nice. However I win! Have to compete with the siblings. I made handmade flowers and got some sticks, painted them, glued buttons on the tops of the sticks and put the flowers on them. Jeff helped with the painting and gluing. I went to the Dollar Tree got a vase, three packages of glass rocks and made a bracelet out of rubber bands for a decoration around the vase.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Isn’t this cool! I am super proud of myself. It took so much time though. However best Mother’s Day present yet.

I can’t help I love to create. Ha!

I got really burnt. I was thinking since my siblings have kids that someone would have some sunscreen. Wrong! I should have put on some suntan lotion before. My face, head and arms all got burnt also I was so tired when we got home from the sun.

Life

On Thursday while on the computer, I had two visitors come near the window. It was so amazing!

 

 

 

 

I love the wildlife near our home.

Sunday is Mother’s Day. I was so hoping that Mother’s day would be at my mom’s house but I didn’t get lucky. It’s going to be at Kim’s house. Strange!

What’s the difference this year, I wonder? She never celebrates Mother’s day and now she wants to with us? It’s at her house and her house is small. A lot smaller than our house. My mom has a boot and a scooter not sure how she is going to get around in that house. It’s supposed to be nice out so we will be outside but still. Blog you know how I dislike Kim. I know it’s not about me but still not going to be great time. *Sigh*

I am still making my mom’s present. I will share when on Monday and how Mother’s day went.

 

 

 

Wow

Oh wow! That crash on Sunday at Talladega was crazy! Chase Elliot’s car really went up. They looked like toy cars getting all smashed up. I am still amazed how a little push can send someone in a tail spin or a little rub of the car they tear like paper. It’s so crazy!

But wow! Ricky Stenhouse Jr won! What a finish! Jeff and I picked our teams to win. I picked Ricky Stenhouse Jr. I told Jeff someone who hasn’t won is going to win something big this year. And they did!

Jeff’s teams is Brad Keselowski, Martin Truex jr and Joey Logano. I have to say he has a good team.

My team is Chase Elliot, Ricky Stenhouse Jr. and Kevin Harvick however I think my team is doing pretty good.

 

Our house has a front deck and we advertised for someone to come and take if for free. We knew that the house has some damaged where the deck sit and wanted this year to address it.

 

 

 

 

It took a father and daughter team for three days to take it away. It was worth and they were very nice. We do have a lot more damage then we thought but it’s good we are going to do something about it. Also makes our front lawn look bigger.

Life

 

I feel badly for Jeff. He has worked so much with no break. I know he is really tired and sore from all the hard work he has been doing. I hope soon he can have a few days to do nothing. He even had to work through Easter which really sucks on top of that he is salary so anything over he doesn’t get paid for it. So shitty.

It has finally happened. I had to stop creating. I got some really bad cramps to very sore in my right hand from crafting. Now I am looking for a brace so I can continue crafting. However I am still going to craft when it feels a little better. I don’t want to stop creating because I love it so. I know I am heading for probably getting shots in my hands and maybe surgery in the future. That is something I will just deal with when the time comes.

I have come to terms that this is something I love. I love creating it’s my happy place. I love seeing what I can do which makes me happy. So I am going to just deal with the pain or stiffness it comes from it. I have no idea what I would do if I can’t.

On that note I made some new bracelets. I prefer these over the dragon scales. I think they look better however my mom liked the dragon scales over these.

 

 

 

 

I also have been creating tiny kitties. I dislike making their tales as the sewing part is hard for me. The pink kitty is my first and the multi-color kitty is my second. I don’t really like the multi-color kitty as you can’t see the eyes so much.

 

 

 

 

I did make Jeff a tiny kitty for work. He put it on his desk. He is says he loves it.  It’s the first kitty that I liked that I made. So cute!