So….Cringe! Seriously CRINGE!!!

Why cringe? Well, my mom said something super stupid to me the other day and it made me cringe. Also, it was really insensitive as well. I mean this is one of the stupidest and cringest things I have heard my mom say. And at this point, we all know my mom can say some really stupid things.

Here is the situation. We got an email from the adoption agency for a potential birth mom. I have been keeping my mom in the loop. Also, I know I haven’t really written in here about that. There hasn’t been anything to say about adoption yet. Anyway, after a long discussion between myself and Jeff, we felt this baby wasn’t right for us. Which is perfectly fine. That is one of the things the adoption agent says a lot. You feel this child is not for your family that is perfectly fine and you will know which one is good for your family, etc.

And she didn’t like that answer. Then she said, “Why can’t someone just give you a baby?” Like did you just say that?! REALLY? Was so cringy. First of all these women are making a really tough decision. They are the bravest women to do this for their child.

So hard to let that comment go even though I know she would deny saying it. Then begs the question do I keep telling her when new moms pop up or not…On the other side, she always askes non-stop when I say no nothing. Then she says you should be calling them and keep asking. Which by the way that isn’t how that works. April says I shouldn’t keep my mom in the loop and I agree with that. So I guess not tell her anymore. But then my conscience is saying keep telling her. UGH I hate you brain sometimes. I guess I will make a decision next time.