Vacation Time

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Super happy fun time!

I am so excited because starting on Monday; I get to go on vacation. I haven’t been on a long vacation for six years!

We have been on mini vacations like two or three days but not a whole week! I am SO excited to go on the adventure we are going to have. We are driving to Michigan near Detroit which that part isn’t all that fun. It will take 8 hours to get there.

We are going to go to a Five Finger Death Punch concert, that’s the main reason why we are going on vacation. Not only do we get to go to the concert we are actually going to meet the guys. I am SO nervous and excited at the same time! But you already know I really want to meet Jeremy Spencer he is my favorite. Hoping he will take a pic with just me and him. (Crossing my fingers!)

The concert is four bands. Nothing More which I only like one song and I don’t really like any of their other songs. HELLYEAH I know some of their songs and I think they are pretty good. The last two bands are the ones I really want to see. Volbeat I love those guys! My favorite song is The Nameless One I hope they sing that song but I love most of their songs. And of course Five Finger Death Punch totally love those guys! My favorite song is Bulletproof. Whatever songs they sing, I am going to totally love it!

I can’t wait to rock out! It’s going to be so cool!

Also we are going to stay at some really cool hotels and see some museums. Yes museums, Jeff and I like museums. I am looking forward to the Henry Ford museum. Even though I don’t know a lot about cars I sure do like looking at them especially really old cars.

I know we are going to do some other museums and sightseeing. Whatever we do in Michigan it will be fun because every time we go on vacation really silly and funny things happen to us.

So my blog I will see you in a week, I will have some fun tales and some really great pics to share.

 

Scatterbrain

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That’s me!

Definition of a scatterbrain: a person who tends to be disorganized and lacking in concentration.

That so describes me because it’s not like I don’t want to pay attention or get one thing done. It is that I think about so much stuff all at once causes me to forget so many things. That is why I am always sending myself emails and writing things down.

It’s really bad because if my husband is upstairs and asks me to get something or do something downstairs. Once I am down there I always forget. So I get a lot of exercise going up and down the stairs. And that is true when it’s just me at home. I would be upstairs go downstairs to get something and totally forget. So I go upstairs “Oh yea” and then downstairs to get it. In fact I have to talk to myself once I am downstairs to remember to grab whatever it is. It’s worse when I have to go to the basement.

It would be cool if being a scatterbrain was a super power. Like if someone said something hurtful and I just forget about it like right away but unfortunately that is not how it works. Also being this way doesn’t mean I don’t remember everything. No, that is not how it is. I just forget the things I have to do at that moment but usually remember later in the day and write myself a note. It’s always the little things I forget not the big things. For example: I need to grab the mop from the basement, I get down there do laundry and go upstairs, forgetting the mop. It can be frustrating at times but I am learning to expect that is just how I am.

I feel kinda bad for my Russian friend because we email all the time and she asks me questions or says interesting things. When I email her I will forget to talk about the interesting things and I just focus on the questions. So the next time I email her I have to say sorry I didn’t say or sorry I didn’t add this last time and then continue. It’s bad! So Helen I know you are going to read this, sorry about that.

I have read that a lot of creative people are scatterbrains which doesn’t make it any better but that is my excuse. “Oh I am just really creative”. That is why I can’t remember what you told me just now or yesterday. When I think about it, it kinda makes me laugh because I should be in a cartoon with eight thousand hands all over the place trying to get everything done at once. But I guess in reality it’s really not that funny but I am trying to positive about it.

Being a scatterbrain also means I have many projects all at once. Seriously! But to my own credit I do get some done. I am not one of those that just let them be around forever. They do get done. However there are some projects that will take a lot longer depending on what they are. Like my cross stitching I have a project I need to finish so I will finish it and it will be awesome. But other projects like my writings those will last a really long time. When I say writings I mean my poetry and I am creating some stories but I will talk about those later.

So what do I think about? The real question is what I do not think about because I think about everything a lot. So what I am trying to do every day is take like 20 minutes listen to music and think about nothing which is really hard to do.

Livemocha

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One day my husband came home from work and told me a story about his co-worker trying to learn Italian because he wants to go Italy someday. I was like really? Is he taking a class? Jeff said no he belongs to this website called livemocha.com. So, generally I was curious about it and checked it out later that day. Once you go there, they had a video and go through what the site is all about. I decided to try it out and it is free. I picked Spanish because I took Spanish in school and figured I would learn this language.

I was impressed how many languages they had to offer. Also, a neat feature of this website is not only do you learn a new language; you get to chat to people from all over the world. And you can help others who are trying to learn your language. It’s a win-win situation. You learn a language, you can help others and you can talk to them using their chat feature in the site.

I got to chat with some people from Spain, Iraq, Africa and Russia but the most people that I chatted with are people from Brazil. If you didn’t know they speak Portuguese in Brazil. I made some connections with a few of people from Brazil. I even have three of them as Facebook friends. Even though it is neat to chat with them, I don’t really want to learn Portuguese. I am one foreign language person.

I met the coolest people but like everywhere you go on the internet there is always really horrible people. Yeah, I found them here too. I did have a scary stalker person. But Livemocha has a blocking system in place and you can write notes why you are blocking a person. So these horrible people and that stalker can’t find me on Livemocha’s website.

I have been on Livemocha for almost two years but later last year they changed their website completely. It was really confusing and some people had the new site and others had the old site. I feel they did a poor job of implementing the web change. I felt that they should have done WAY more testing before uploading it to any users. There were so many problems when they changed their website.

Because they did such a poor job of converting everyone and the hard time I had with the new site. I just stop going there. I no longer feel it’s worth my time or effort of being a Livemocha member. And not just the change of the site that made me not want to go there. I also decided I wanted to do something else with my time. So, partly the change of the website and a change of my mind that I no longer want to do this anymore however I do feel grateful to meet the people I did.

I also had something amazing happen to me on this website though. A woman contacted and asked me to be her American English teacher. To get this straight, almost everyone on that site has no training or has a degree in their own language. There is a place to say if you are teacher and have a degree but I am not one those people.

So I was taken back by this because like I said I have no degree in English. But I couldn’t miss this opportunity to help this person and potently meet a new friend. Now this is totally unlike me, I tend to shy away from these kinds of interactions because who knows who on the internet and I am not a social person. But like I said couldn’t pass the opportunity.

I am glad I said yes because this last April we will have been conversing for two years. Two years! Now I have a new friend from a different country which happens to be Russia. And I have to say I have been learning a lot more than I thought I would.

7 Years

7 years

7 years today I have been married. Let me tell you it has been a roller-coaster but not a negative one, a fun one at times, frustrating but all in all the best decision of my life.

When I met Jeff I was 22 and he was 29. I was young considering I graduated high school when I was 19. Now that seems late but more than half of my class graduated at 19. I met Jeff on a dating site and I found him. Yes, I like pointing that out. The first time I saw his pic he was posing with a young girl who I thought was his daughter. Wrong! It was his roommate’s daughter. It’s kinda funny because Jeff doesn’t remember that pic. The other pic he had on there, he was wearing a red shirt, black pants and glasses. Totally cute! We talked on the site, then on the phone and finally had a date. Our first date was AWESOME! No guy ever treated me like that. Which I mean is held the door for me, super polite, paid for dinner. What? Paid for dinner? Yes, no I haven’t been on many dates but the ones I have been I always had to pay. It was totally cool and he walked me to my car.

During our “dating days” we hit some bumps but always worked them out. Just like now! Our wedding was a very traditional Catholic wedding. It’s funny because when we talk about our wedding, we both agree that we would have been fine with a small untraditional wedding. (Oh well!)

We have been married for 7 but have been together for 9 years. I have to say I love our relationship now and Jeff agrees. But I am glad we hit our “bumps” early on.

So here is my secret of a happy marriage: honesty. Yes, honesty and laughter. We tell each other EVERYTHING. No secrets! And we make each other laugh every day. You know that saying “never go to bed angry”. Well poppycock! I learned that sometimes not all the time to go to bed angry. Sometimes I or he just needs time to think about it. Also I can’t always be right. Yes I am wrong…sometimes.

Here is a wedding photo of us. Also Jeff would have been smiling but he got Bell’s Palsy before our wedding. If you don’t know what that is, it is a disorder of the nerves that controls movement of the muscles in the face. This can happen to anyone at any time and the doctors do not know what causes it. Kinda scary! Anyways we are, one of the best days ever!

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